Advice on dating your best friends ex
'Do what makes you happy and deal with the consequences later' works for some as the perfect mantra.
If this fresh start makes you happy and you are willing to risk stepping down on the friendship ladder and face the probable repercussions, then by all means go ahead.
But what do you fall back on if your 'sea' is a small pond?
The queer community is so select that the odds of meeting someone without a mutual friend or ex are almost negligible.
The celebrity and A-listers also have a very exclusive circle in which they seek relationships.
VIPs become the talk of the town when they serial date, all the more when they date their friend's exes.
Back in 2009, Kate Hudson dated Alex 'A-Rod' Rodriguez and then he went on to date Cameron Diaz in 2010.
The more time you give, the less the pain for them.It's so much more important than some guy that it didn't work out with." She definitely has her hoes-over-bros and sister-over-mister ideologies on point. They spark up when you least expect it to come along. Lastly, the ex, who once upon a time was centre of your best friend's universe and now, might be the centre of yours.It is understandable that the situation is overwhelming and you're torn between both ends. Writers, artists and musicians have woven their art around it since time immemorial. Moment of truth -- Can your feelings be controlled? In order to maintain calm and composure in this pseudo love triangle, the first checkpoint is to make yourself sure of your feelings. More often than not your best friend will not be okay with the fact that you're dating his or her ex.You could probably expect a series of reactions ranging from pride screaming out loud, "Great!I'm happy for you," to old wounds reopening and lamenting "Why do you want my ex?